I presume that spending time with family, rest and relaxation are all personal and independent areas of focus from the items you list above.
If the above list really matters to you, you need to focus on how your work aligns with whats on the list. You also need to consider the larger agenda in this list. Are you interested in becoming canonized as a saint? are you interested in acquiring power in order to achieve those goals? Are you interested in meeting others who share the same outlook as you?What are you doing that is tangible and achievable that sets the stage for achievement of any of the items on your list?