DA says in order to have an effective system, you have to get everything out of your head, leave nothing uncaptured. So does that include love life? Do you turn courtship into a project, envision successful outcome, and define NAs? For example, youíre planning a date, so you use all the methods described in project planning. But after all the NAs are already defined and others put into their proper buckets, you canít stop Ďdaydreamingí about the successful outcome. Does this mean there are still some loose ends not yet fully captured? And what if defining NAs isnít as easy? You canít decide what gift to buy her, whether to call her tonight or go to her house instead. Hereís another scenario: after a successful date you canít help but reminisce the moments, how u both had a great time, what you talked about, etc... I donít mind thinking about these stuff but it isnít very productive if sheís always on your mind. Itís taking up space in the psychic RAM. I take it from DA Ďif itís on your mind, itís probably not getting done.í Fine, she isnít my girl yet, so technically, the project isnít Ďdone.í But you canít expect it to all happen in just a couple of days. So what? You put it on your calendar and define milestones? Is it really possible to capture everything in the right buckets and forget about her? Apologies if I sound slow witted here. Any comment would be highly appreciated.
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